UNMIK on AIR

7th July 2003

THE UNHEALED WOUNDS OF WAR

(Luan Qorraj)

 

 

Everything we live through, be it good or bad, leaves a mark somewhere within our consciousness. And the harder the times people go through, the deeper are the scars remaining- although sometimes they do not show.

 

The Kosovar population has gone through some hard years- from the beginning of the 90’s and the uncertainty of the future- through the times of war, up to now, when thousands of people are still missing and most families still have to struggle to secure their daily food. So how deep are the scars really and what is the toll that the past years have taken on the people of Kosovo?

 

There was no full study done on the subject, but there are numbers, which can tell a part of a story. In the Drenica region alone in the last four years there was a 300 percent rise in the suicide rate within a population known to rarely give into desperation. There is, at least, a doubling in the number of divorces, an increase in drug usage within the younger population and countless cases of domestic violence or aggravated assaults that happened for no apparent reason- all of these indicating that something is wrong within society. According to Ali Riza Arenliu, from the institute of public health, people have defenses that should protect them but after a prolonged period of time, these defenses fail:

 

Ali Riza Arenliu: Every man has his own mechanisms with which he deals with everyday life. You can imagine this as baggage that we carry with ourselves and whenever we are in a new situation we pull out a new appliance to face it. Not every man has in his baggage the appliances he needs to face the everyday problems brought by the new life, the new way – the transformation into a nuclear family, a growth in individual interest – despite the collective one. These are all changes that we are living in and not every man has the needed appliances to face all of these situations.

 

While Dr. Gani Shabani, the head of the community mental health center in Mitrovica, who has spent the past four years working with trauma victims in the Drenica region, says the situation in the field is far from being bright. He adds that, because of the nature of the war most of the people he has treated were women - since they were often the ones left behind to tell the story 

 

Dr. Gani Shabani: When it comes to Post Traumatic Stress Disorders – the numbers are pretty large – there are also other disorders, depressions, and neurotic disorders, up to the hardest cases, which have gone into psychosis. The largest number of them is in Skenderaj region – where lately, after the war, there are suicides and attempted suicides which disturbs us a lot.

 

Dr Shabani says that despite the hard work put in by the people from his centre, treating people who are suffering post war traumas and who still hurt for their loved ones is a difficult task- especially if there is no general plan on helping people Kosovo-wide:

 

Dr. Gani Shabani: I had cases when mothers lost their only son- for them everything was over – it is very difficult to convince her otherwise since she accused herself of not doing anything, although she couldn’t have done anything to save her child. Then there is a big problem of the missing. Four years after a piece of their clothing is found and the family doesn’t accept that he is dead. The others are searching for graves, it is very problematic.

 

Kosovar society, as it is today, is not a very healthy environment for those who have already been exposed to more than they could take. Feride Rushiti is from the Kosovar center for rehabilitation of torture victims, which assists sufferers of all sorts of trauma-related problems. Up to now the centre has had over 10 thousand clients suffering from all kinds of disorders – says that what people need now is security, something not easily found in a society which has low employment, political instability and complete uncertainty of what the future will bring. Plus, she adds, that in a rapidly changing Kosovo people also lost their natural means of support: 

 

Feride Rushiti: Even the family, as it was before – a very strong institution, is disappearing, it is going towards Europeanization, the patriarchal families are disappearing, there is a silent war between the old and the new and this destabilizes the situation even more and it makes it even harder for the victims with which we are working

 

But, unfortunately, the story doesn’t end here. There are new cases of mental health problems appearing daily. Dr Gani Shabani says that a certain number of new cases can be explained because of the nature of PTSD- but, that will account for only a few of them:  

 

Dr Gani Shabani: there are new cases of these disorders appearing- although Post Traumatic Stress Disorder can appear after 4, 5 or even more years. But the biggest problem are the suicide cases. And there are new cases, people that didn’t have mental disorders before or after the war – until the last couple of months.

 

And that is where desperation sets in, says Ulpiana Neziri, a sociologist who has recently done a study on the increased suicide rate. According to her the drop that filled the glass for some people is the disappointment in long-expected freedom which wasn’t so free for many: 

 

Ulpiana Neziri: for many years, entire generations of kosovars have grown up believing that their outside source of unhappiness is occupation. And the belief that “at the moment we are free – we will be capable to develop, to be happy.” But this didn’t happen.

 

A fact which, says Ulpiana, might account for at least a part of the increase in suicide rates is also the lack of a guilty party. For years there was an enemy to blame for everything- nowdays there is no enemy left, and the enemy took the hope that things will get better with him:

 

Ulpiana Neziri: If an individual finds an outside source of his unhappiness, his extreme response is murder- the elimination of the cause of unhappiness. If the individual is not capable of identifying an outside source of his unhappiness his extreme response is suicide.

 

And of course it’s not just the majority Albanian community which suffers from trauma-related mental health problems. These can be found in all of Kosovo’s communities. For some, isolated in enclaves or marginalized by poverty, the problems can be even more severe.

 

Add the re-traumatizing to all of that and the result can be an explosive mix of various experiences, says Feride Rushiti. Her centre had to treat the same people over and over again, after they were believed to be cured:

 

Feride Rushiti: during the crisis in Macedonia we have seen that the clients that we treated were in very bad condition. After 5 or 6 sessions, after we thought that these clients have been rehabilitated they came looking for help again- because of the fear that the war will come back to Kosovo. The same thing goes for the Milosevic trial, we came out with this study and most of our clients, after they saw it on TV were in very poor psychological shape and all the symptoms they have manifested in the beginning were appearing again.

 

And they will appear again says, Ali Riza Arenliu from the Public Health institute. A lot of people have suffered deeply and lost the people they loved the most. Now, instead of finding at least some sort of comfort within the society- they find themselves marginalized and feel completely lost and vulnerable: 

 

Ali Riza Arenliu: Ex- KLA fighters, citizens, orphans – if they do not get the necessary social support- not to speak of the economic and other types of support it is logical to expect that these people will have problems since the conditions they are in are not normal. They have lost something from before- something that may have given them support – and if the society doesn’t offer them that support then the probability that they will be re-traumatized or have mental health problems is much higher.

 

So what is there to be done? The psychiatrists are out in the field working. There are support groups and NGO-s that offer counseling and various types of treatments but all of those deal only with the consequences.  In order to heal the wounds of the individuals, says Ulpiana Neziri, the society as a whole should be healthy:

 

Ulpiana Neziri: Until Kosovo becomes a completely functioning society we should be ready for more years like these. We should be ready for the moment a person understands how hard it is to make changes and how good are the changes – and what role can an individual have in the general process of the changes. Then the individual will be stronger and be less liable to give into the weaknesses of the moment.

 

It seems that the it will take some more time before the wounds left on Kosovar people will heal. But while progress is slow it is happening, a new mental health centre is due to open shortly in Skenderaj.