UNMIK ON AIR
PRIEST IN MITROVICA
By Zoran CULAFIC
29 July 2003
Hello and welcome to UNMIK ON AIR with….
Mitrovica south – the Serb population here is almost as small as
the number of Albanians north of the Ibar River. Only 15 Serbs remain in the
southern part of the still bitterly divided town. Amongst them, Sveta Nojic,
who retired this month after 40 years as a priest in the Saint Sava Orthodox
Church in south Mitrovica. A tiny house in the churchyard has been home to
Sveta Nojic, his wife and two daughters for 25 years – and for the last four
years, they’ve lived under 24 hour protection by the Greek KFOR.
Arned KFOR soldiers continue to escort Serbs from northern
Mitrovica for Sunday liturgy, says Father Nojic, but the numbers have fallen
off sharply, he adds sadly. Only 3 Serbs showed up last week, and the priest is
worried that this will only exacerbate the emotional and mental no man’s land
his people have been living in.
Sveta: In an ethical
and moral sense, we are at the bottom, so low, we can’t fall any more, or else
we will be buried alive There will be no better days for our people until we
return to the faith, to tradition, until we return to what makes human beings
human. Without that, there is no future for us, and how long it’ll take I don’t
know, maybe 5 years, maybe 10 … 20 years, and 50 years.
Sveta Nojic doesn’t have a high opinion of politicians, the
current flock of Serb politicians are all the same, he says, whether they are
from the Milosevic regime or the new democratic set-up – the majority, he adds,
are only interested in manipulating the people.
Sveta: As you can see, our Serbs just quarrel with each other,
accusing each other, fighting … instead of seeing the reality, they only think
of how they can break each other’s neck. They care for people only until they
get into power. There is a popular proverb – oh my people, oh my strength, oh
my people, oh my cattle. Until they get to power they say - oh my people, oh my
strength, they promise everything … but right after that they behave according
to the second part, oh my people, oh my cattle. They don’t give a damn, until
the next election, and I have to say, you cannot say which one is the worse.
Father Nojic did once have the option to stay on in the beautiful
mountain resort town of Brejevitsa, where he ministered for some 15 years. But
Mitrovica obviously got under his skin, and there was no question of leaving,
either to go north of the Ibar, or to get out of Kosovo altogether.
And so for the past four years, the Nojic family, which includes
two daughters in their mid thirties, have lived behind barbed wire, under
constant KFOR protection. An abnormal situation for anyone, but how much more
for a 34-year old woman? Slavica Nojic, the younger daughter.
Slavica: Maybe it’s funny, but I don’t know anymore what normal
life is, when you live four years like this, you get used to it, you get
accustomed to it and so this became a normal life for me. I do miss the
freedom, to decide alone when I go out, to organize my time, but I can’t.
Everything is linked to someone else, whether someone can take you out, then
you feel free, then you can make friendship … if he cannot escort you, you
remain behind closed doors. Something like being under house arrest, I don’t
know what else to compare it with.
KFOR soldiers escort her each morning as she travels to her job in
northern Mitrovica, and when they bring her back to the church house in the
afternoon, there’s an end to her social life.
Slavica: I think it’s sad that young people of my age live like
this. I can tell you a fact, a tragic-comical story in fact. I have been out, in the town or in a
restaurant less than 10 times over the last four years in Mitrovica That tells
you how normal life here is, especially for young people.
For Slavica’s mother too, the thing they miss most is freedom of movement,
to at least be able to leave the house from time to time.
Slavica: We’ve lived for four years like this, like in a prison
camp, behind barbed wire. We look outside just like prisoners look through
their window. Albanians are happy, they walk, look around, got to shops,
markets … just across the street, there is everything to buy but we never even
thought to go there.
As for us, it depends on
us whether we have something or not. There is a small garden here, so always we
have vegetables and some fruit for everyday use, strawberries, cabbage,
parsley, tomato, and carrots … so we make do with what we have and stay here,
taking care of the church of St Sava.
Sveta Nojic has little bitterness. He prefers to remember
Mitrovica the way it was before and the way it could in the future, a truly
economically vibrant and multi-ethnic city.
Sveta: Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you. Then
there would be peace and unity on earth, paradise on earth. If we take care of each other, if we forgive
each other, if we respect each other, help each other …
And there is happiness in forgiving each other, in not being
spiteful or to take revenge or to offend each other … all that is part of the
spiritual wealth we all unfortunately lack.
Retired he may be, but Sveta Nojic clearly still has a lot to
contribute.
That does it for this edition of UNMIK ON AIR. Thanks for
listening.